I’ve been through a hard and abusive marriage. I’ve had to raise three kids while trying to pull myself together and find the will to move on. I didn’t think I was strong enough or worthy enough. I was embarrassed and ashamed. I felt guilty for putting my kids through it as long as I did.

 

My marriage was hard from the beginning. I endured physical abuse, emotional torment, control, derogatory names, ridicule, and disrespect. I was made to feel inadequate—never pretty enough, smart enough, with the wrong hair color, or lacking the right college degree to make him successful. I lost myself and became someone unrecognizable. Yet, I put on a smile, striving to portray the picture-perfect family. 

 

Does this sound familiar? 

 

Maybe you are there now or have been there and still looking for a way to heal. I’m sorry for what you have been through. I wish I could reach out and hug you and let you know that everything is going to be ok. One thing I want you to know is that you are not alone - God is always with you. 

 

This isn’t an easy part of life to go through, it’s not something we ever thought would happen, but I am here to tell you that while I know you are feeling overwhelmed you will get STRONGER. The person who tried to “bury” you didn’t succeed, instead they planted a seed. A seed that made you STRONGER THAN BEFORE. You will learn to love yourself again. 

 

I made it this far and so will you. Don’t give up! Our stories may not be pretty but I pray our adversity is replaced with the illuminating power of faith, support, and the knowledge that we are resilient to overcome the most challenging of circumstances. Do not let your past define you! Dream BIG my friend, I will be one of your loudest cheerleaders. From darkness to strength, I am committed to being the beacon of hope that I needed during my darkest days. 

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I desperately wanted to heal and become the person God meant for me to be. I craved healing that only God could bring, one that resulted in resilience, personal growth, and an unwavering faith in God's guidance. My journey has led me through the darkness of an abusive marriage and has led me to a place of light and hope. 

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I've transitioned from a stay-at-home mom (SAHM) to a professional career, this is all a testament to the strength and potential that lies within us all. I wrote the book I needed ten years ago. This isn't just about sharing my own experiences but also being a light of hope and strength for you. I pray this book is like having a heart-to-heart conversation with a friend who understands your pain and stands by you, reminding you that you are not alone and that everything will be ok because God is always with you. 

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Your loving friend,

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Ann